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Stories....You....Child....Imagination....

So what does story mean to you? Mean to a child?....What does a story need? .... Stories are how we convey our deepest emotions... Stories connect to us in number of ways... Emotionally, they bond us to others.  At their best,  stories are incredibly persuasive because they ‘speak  to us’ at a very meaningful, emotional, and often unconscious  level. Stories play a vital role in the growth and development of children. That's how we see there are loads and loads of awareness these days about the importance of stories, story telling, story tellers and every possible way that we could connect children and stories..Thanks to the efforts by one and all!!!  Also, one more aspect of stories is that - There is no need to have special place, timing, skill, theme or anything needed to connect to a child with a story...Isn't it???....Think about it.... And while you think.... Here are a few simple ideas to try with the child on the go -  (some of the ...

Discipline....

What is this discipline all about? We hear about this term “Discipline” from the time we were young and continues almost at every stage of our life.. Type in the word and you have umpteen quotes, articles, books, strategies, Do’s, Don’ts, People, Life and everything that revolves around “Discipline” Hmmm...Think about how much does this word exists in your life?? Look at your day and somewhere or the other this word creeps in different forms and proportions... If you have a child in your life or child - close to your life then this word is even more dearer.... !!! And if you are a Teacher then you can’t ever dream of keeping this away even for a day in your life...It’s like your basic app that exists in your phone - without which you cannot operate your phone.... How about looking at discipline from a totally different view and trying the same?  Let's look at a few scenarios a classroom & how we could approach the same through different lens... Chi...

So what do kids teach us???

What are the most common things that you see in children? No no...I am not labeling them - it's just about a few things that you will significantly notice when you are around children - They are "The Most Bussssssssyyyyyyy" people - They are the most busy people you can ever find anywhere - look around - observe - do you see them quiet anytime? Well, probably only when they are asleep (but you never know the action happening behind the closed eyes ;)) They put up with our constant tantrums - Yes!! I mean it - how much do we go behind them all the time constantly - Get up, get ready, time, finish  your milk, did you brush, wear your shoes, run, eat, write, learn, come, go, wait, sit, sleep, watch, listen, respect, bye, say hello, wear properly, don't spill, see there.......;) aaaah!!! don't weeee??? I know completely understandable - yes we need to :).....They still, put up with all this day in day out - Think about it :)...Thankfully they...

Listen....

Whenever I read this - It rings a bell...It brings in awareness of what we do to children sometimes Unconsciously.... ...'Listen'.... Each of it expressed in here is so very true.... Author - Anonymous When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked. When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings. When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, you have failed me, strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don’t talk or do – just hear me. Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy Graham in the same newspaper. And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering, but not helpless. When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and inadequacy. But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, n...

The Things We Steal From Children by Dr.John Edwards

Here is something so very close to all the things that I have learned from Ratnesh and during TTT & from everyone at Amable who have helped me to be here in this profound journey with children.... A poem by John Edwards and his wife Sandra Russell about "The Things We Steal From Children" - very powerful Enjoy reading these beautiful lines- That will surely leave you thinking & reflecting :) If I am always the one to think of where to go next. If where we go is always the decision of the curriculum or my curiosity and not theirs, If motivation is mine, If I always decide on the topic to be studied, the title of the story, the problem to be worked on, If I am always the one who has reviewed their work and decided what they need, How will they ever know how to begin? If I am the one who is always monitoring progress. If I set the pace of all working discussions, If I always look ahead, foresee problems and endeavour to eliminate them, If I swoop in an...

Mamma I am bored!!! Simple Ideas to have fun & learn!!!

How about making a break time jar today??? All you need is a little bit of time and simple things that will keep your child gainfully occupied... Here are a few Multiple Intelligence based ideas which the child could do with a minimal assistance from your side & have fun!!! All you need is to take print out of this list & cut each idea, make chits of them & put them in a jar. Whenever your child is bored or want to take a break, he/she can pick a chit and do what's in it.   If you want you could even hand write these ideas along with your child, editing/adding as per both your needs and the age of the child. If you think these are for a higher age group than your child - then you could a little bit of modification & use them Here are about a 20 ideas for you to go through + at the end of the blog is the link to the attachment to print the same  -  Draw or paint your favourite story or the story that you have recently heard ...

And then Life Goes On.....

So much of anger that we all go through with the Sexual Abuse that's happening without an end to the crime and with Children it's just beyond something to digest or keep quiet.... There are so many underlying questions that I find it difficult to comprehend…. Is there nothing called as “Conscience” to the person committing such heinous crime… The trauma that child undergoes….During and post the crime…   The plight of parents and the loved ones to see their child who suffered & suffering so much of pain…Mental agony that they go through and the irony of not being able to do anything knowing that some rogue for his pleasure has committed such a horrible act… Imagine that child that has gone through the ordeal, pain and end of it has to come in terms with life ahead….& all this out of balance in life is because of someone who escapes scot free… When such things happen… we get jolted…we stand on side of justice…we do everything possible to stand united and tot...